"It is a joy to be hidden, and a disaster not to be found."
D.W. Winnicott
The same fight keeps happening. Or the same distance. Or the same pattern where you give too much and end up resentful, or pull away and end up alone.
Relationship problems rarely live in the relationship alone. They live in you. In the patterns you learned long before this partner showed up. In the things you tolerate because you don’t believe you deserve better. In the walls you built to protect yourself that now keep everyone out.
I work with individuals on their relationship patterns. This isn’t couples therapy. It’s your work. Understanding why you choose the people you choose, why you stay when you should leave, why you leave when you should stay.
This might be you if...
You keep ending up in the same kind of relationship. You struggle with intimacy or trust. You’re in a relationship that’s making you miserable but you can’t change the dynamic or walk away.
In-person in Tel Aviv. Online worldwide.
Frequently Asked Questions
A: No. I work with individuals. The relationship is the context, but the work is yours. Your patterns, your needs, your blind spots.
A: Yes. When one person changes, the dynamic shifts. You can’t control your partner, but you can understand your role in the pattern. That changes more than you’d expect.